Family & divorce

Common mistakes parents make in a custody dispute

Most of the damage in a custody case is self-inflicted, and almost all of it is avoidable if you know what to watch for.

  • How poor communication with the other party can harm your case.

Can poor communication between myself and the other parent harm my case?

One of the key factors considered by the court during custody cases is whether one parent maintains a good relationship between the child and the other parent. Failing to communicate with the other parent can influence the court's impression of whether or not you are making an effort to foster a good relationship, which can ultimately harm your case. It is important to communicate thoroughly and promote positive relationships so that you can make a good impression on the court.

How can failing to document my interactions with another parent create complications?

In custody cases, it often boils down to your word against the word of the other parent, which can make it difficult for a judge to make a decision without any basis in fact. However, documenting all of your interactions can help you to prove that you are telling the truth, which can be imperative to the success of your case.

Why should I avoid bad-mouthing the other parent in front of my child?

If you try to bad-mouth and speak ill of the other party in front of your children, this is actually viewed by the courts as a form of child abuse. There is no need to drag your children into your custody battle. In fact, the judge will instruct you to keep the children out of it altogether. It is considered harmful to the children and incredibly detrimental to your case to speak poorly of the other parent fighting for custody.

Why are deadlines and court dates so important to my custody dispute?

Failure to meet deadlines can actually prove to be a fatal mistake that kills your case entirely. In the event that you miss a discovery deadline, the judge reserves the right to prevent you from presenting witnesses or evidence to defend your case. While missing discovery deadlines can be bad news for your case, missing a court date may cause the judge to have the trial without you. This can have catastrophic results on the outcome of your case.

Attorney Michael Knollmeyer is a seasoned lawyer based in Jacksonville, AR who has helped countless clients just like you navigate the intricacies of child custody law. With 40 years of licensed experience, he is prepared to assist you in navigating your custody battle so that you can do what's best for the future of your children.

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How can Social media use impact my custody dispute?

While you are in litigation, it would be wise to either refrain from posting anything of consequence on social media or refrain from posting altogether. Just like they say in the Miranda warnings: anything you say can and will be used against you, so it is best to practice extreme caution. As a rule, you would be wise to refrain from using social media until your case is over.

Failure to meet deadlines can actually prove to be a fatal mistake that kills your case entirely.

Why is it crucial to respect court orders even when I disagree with them?

Even if you disagree with their decision, it is imperative that you do not disobey the orders of the court. The court will enforce its orders, and you could be held in contempt of court or even put in jail for disrespecting them. Failing to follow court orders could lead to the judge giving you fewer rights, as they have reason to believe that you may disobey future orders. It is extremely important to follow court orders regardless of whether or not you agree with them.

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This article is general information about Arkansas law, not legal advice about your situation, and reading it does not create an attorney-client relationship. The law changes. Talk to a lawyer about your own facts before acting.

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